We all know that sex can sometimes get a little predictable when you’re in a long term relationship so why not spruce things up tonight with one of these 5 things we think you should try at least once in the bedroom!
A bit of kinky bondage
Although described as a form of non-normative sexual behaviour kink has long been around and is not all whips and chains as some people would like to believe. Revived by the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon kink has been brought back to life and propelled into the mainstream with everyone from your hairdresser to your nan giving it a go! So start simply with a bit of light bondage and restraint play to keep your partner under wraps.
It may sound a bit scary to start off with but we stock a range of restraints for beginner’s such a silky sashes, adjustable Velcro on/off handcuffs and slip on stretchy wrist and ankle restraints. Easy to use and sensitive to your skin, these forms of restraints allow for simple removal if you feel uncomfortable but also help to get you in the mood for a bit of kink.
Role play
Whether you’re into the idea of playing the naughty nurse, saucy secretary or would like to see your partner in full fire-fighter mode why not take it a step further and make your fantasy reality. Of course it might feel a little embarrassing and unusual to start off with, but try and stay in character and you’ll soon get in the mood.
Dirty Talk or Sexy Sexting
Dirty talk and a bit of sexy sexting can be extremely empowering for your sex life and a great way of making your everyday sexual experiences seem that bit kinkier.
So get your partner in the mood early on with some saucy texts describing all the things you want to do or maybe even that sexy set of lingerie you brought especially for the occasion. It’s not all about the blatantly obvious images of yourself but more the suggestion of what might happen that will make your partner feel excited.
Once you’re partner’s home take it one step further with a bit of dirty talk in the bedroom. Simply take it slowly and start with words you feel comfortable saying and build it up from there in the throes of your sexual intimacy to show your lover exactly what you really want!
Sex Toys
When it comes to spicing up your love life, one of the easiest and most exciting ways to turn up the heat is by adding sexy toys and erotic sex accessories to the mix.
Selecting the right sex toys can be easy. Simply talk to your partner openly about the kind of sexual pleasure you both enjoy together, whether it is anal, vaginal or oral and look into sex toys that enhance that pleasure together. Start with something simple, and go slow and build it up from there if you both feel comfortable and at ease. See our range of sex toys here.
Massage
Massage can be a fantastic romantic prelude to foreplay or lovemaking as it allows you to explore each other’s bodies and erogenous zones in a new and highly sexually arousing way. Not only that but sexual massage has a host of benefits to men and women looking to increase their libido, boast sexual intimacy or to help men dealing with issues of premature ejaculation.
Of course you can add whatever you like into the mix to kink things up a little more but we suggest our beginners start slowly with a little massage oils, our beautiful massage candles or perhaps even one of our sexy little massagers.